Tuesday, March 8, 2011

My Patience is NOT Thick.....

.... and.it is wearing very thin right now.

I don't mean to complain - honest - my view is spectacular.  Either out the window or across the table where Pooldad sits :) - but honest to goodness I am going to scream if someone doesn't start telling me the truth.

This whole "settlling of Mom's estate" is driving me bonkers.  I can't get a straight answer and at every turn it one misstatement after another. [Misstatement is being kind.]

I just want to go home.

I never thought I would say this, but I miss Virginia.

No worries - we will get it done and be on the road soon.  It is just one more little bump in the speedway of life.

But if one more person cranks me up I am going to make Sandra's wish come true and call them a "douchecanoe."

17 comments:

Phelan said...

hugs

Rudee said...

It's an emotional crossroads. Hang in there, Skippy.

Thisisme. said...

Sorry to hear that you're having a bit of a piggy time down there, Skippy. Typical bureaucracy I guess!! Will be so good when you eventually get it all sorted. Take care, and deep breaths!!!

Teresa - in the Middle Side of Life said...

is that one step above, or one step below, a douchebag?

hugs... breathe in... hold... breathe out... repeat as necessary.

Mynx said...

Seems both of us have our challenges at the moment.
You will get through it. As Teresa said, breathe.
Sending you hugs my friend

Mountain Mama said...

"Douchecanoe"...I'm going to use that one as soon as I find someone appropriate for the title (and I'm sure it won't take me long! HA HA)

Sorry you're having a bit of difficulty. I know that when my mom died it seemed like everyone had an "agenda" and it really made me want to bust some people's heads. (I was still pretty young and spunky at the time ;) All I wanted was the truth, which seemed to be completely elusive. I'm not sure I ever really got "the truth" but I got to see the truth about certain people's character and that was a real eye-opener. A line from the song "One Headlight" by The Wallflowers kept running through my head "There's got to be an opening somewhere here in front of me through this maze of ugliness and greed." I'm so glad that time is over and done.

Big (((HUGS))) being sent your way! Hoping this all gets worked out as quickly and painlessly as possible for you. Try to remember that old saying "This too will pass." I know you're a tough cookie and you don't need my advice but just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you and I'm hoping and praying for peace and blessings for you and your family.

lyndylou said...

this is a hard time for you, hope it gets sorted soon. Hang in there, (((hugs)))

bruce said...

am i gonna have to come down there an lay out some whoop*ss, as like a little warmup before heading to mynx-y land?

i think the worst part of death is the loss of someone close, but the insanity of others and the agendas are nearly as bad...

well...they do not make it any better

Bouncin' Barb said...

A dose of Bouncin' Barb tomorrow will make you feel better, I promise!

Trisha said...

Sorry to hear this :( I hope your able to get through this bump quickly & move on.

becca said...

hugs

Linda in New Mexico said...

sorry love, hang in there. TOB

caterpillar said...

Maybe, deep breathing might help...helps me...

Yum Yucky said...

Gulp. I work in that biz and I understand how frustrating that can be. I hope it all gets worked out really soon.

treasenuak said...

BIG hugs... sorry to hear about your frustration!

And if douchecanoe doesn't quite fit, you can always borrow twatwaffle or crotchpolyp from me; those are the ones I use for our two VERY unwanted housemates who are moving out in May ;)

Keep on breathing and keep on trucking... things will sort out eventually!

mybizzykitchen.com said...

I miss Virginia too - and I don't even live there! (but I get there every other year!)

Hang in there - breathe in the fresh air, enjoy the scenery and pooldad - in the whole grand scheme of things, its all good. :D

Hype0724 said...

Hang in there Skippy, it'll work itself out...

My favorite quote is “Never trust anyone who quotes Yoko Ono.”

Possibly the best rebuttal of all time...